Hi mntsmith
I am sorry you have such a difficult relationship with your mother. What led you to start using those very short sentences with your mother? Was it perhaps after a specific incident or more like a change you made after dealing with her difficult behavior for a very long time?
So I took the opportunity to tell her something- 5 to be exact and she flipped out completely. Said some of the most nasty things ever - all swearing she never said that---( her favorite line) to I miss heard her to I'm crazy and lying. She disowned me- swore and told me not to even come or cry at her funeral. One day during this week long craziness she texted me 29 times!
Is this the first time that your mother has 'flipped out' like this or has this happened before?
You told your mom several things during that conversation. What would you say are your mother's most troubling or difficult behaviors?
I am glad you've found your way here, many of our members have a disordered parent too and know how stressful that can be. Welcome to bpdfamily
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