Hi everybody
I have been reading at different boards and found that nons have practical
problems setting boundaries, which includes me.
Obviously, everyone has unique relationships and the setting of boundaries
might be different.
I would want
practical advice in this regard i.e:
How to implement?
How to discuss / negotiate?
And when she is emotional unavailable ?
What boundaries should be set at minimum?
1. We will not fight in front of the children ... .
2. We will not cheat ... .
3. We will not get drunk ... .
4. We will go to church ... .
5. We will respect ... .
6. We will ... .
I have no idea at all what to do?
I am an enabler and codependent
She told me to
leave the house months agoI did not because also due to two kiddies (3 and 5)
She is out most weekends, I think there is someone else
Sometimes binge drinking
Sometimes binge eating
She is on the phone everyday with who know for hours
Sometimes I feel like leaving
What about the kids then?
Ouch, changed the subject:
Subject is: PRACTICAL ADVICE IN SETTING UP BOUNDRIES
TX