no shock here done this test
Am I codependent?
I recently saw a questionnaire which I’ve adapted for people with BPD.
1. Do you have a hard time saying no to others, even when it’s in your best interest to do so? Y
2. Are you always sacrificing your own needs for others? Y
3. Do you derive a feeling of self-worth from helping others? Y
4. Would you feel guilty or worthless if you stopped helping others? Y
5. Do you know how to have friendships that don’t involve you in the “helper” role? Y
6. Would you still be friends with friends who no longer needed your help? Y
7. Do you feel resentful when others are not “grateful enough”? N
8. Do you feel uncomfortable when you are receiving help, rather than giving it? Y
9. Do you think your friends have chaotic lives and drift from crisis to crisis? Y
10. Did you grow up in a chaotic family? Y
11. Did you think it was up to you to keep the family functioning when you were growing up? Y
12. Are many of your friends plagued with severe social or emotional problems? Y
13. Is it important for you to be “the dependable one”? Y
got a single no, yes is codependency