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demolishedheart

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My fiancé has left me abruptly

« on: November 14, 2017, 11:44:23 PM »

My fiancé left me abruptly and won’t talk to me. She is also bipolar.


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Re: My fiancé has left me abruptly

« Reply #1 on: November 15, 2017, 05:11:38 AM »

Hi demolishedheart,

Welcome to the family here, but sorry to hear this news! I can only imagine this was a painful shock for you. Has this happened before with her? Does she tend to push/pull you?

Your fiancé has BPD and is also bipolar? How are you feeling? Can you provide more details as to what happened?

take care, pearlsw.


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Re: My fiancé has left me abruptly

« Reply #2 on: November 15, 2017, 03:13:22 PM »

demolishedheart, I am so sorry about this.

The best advice I can give is to not take it personally. This is not about you but about her.

This is one of the hardest things in a relationship with a person with PDs. They don't function emotionally like the nons.

Please don't blame yourself for this.


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