My wife says people like her never do anything without a motive. I don't know what to believe. All I know is that I get an apology, and three weeks later we get a lovely new neighbour (two doors down). The coincidence seems to much to ignore. I'd love to hear others opinion on this. Am I over analyzing again (a bad habit I have)?
Firstly your wife sounds like a very sensible, wise and grounded woman you are lucky (and I think she is spot on by the way).
Secondly, I doubt it is a coincidence - the timing is way too convenient. The photos and apology are designed to elicit and positive emotional response. As your wife has said it has a motive. All we can do is speculate but I suspect it falls into the category of a recycle attempt.
Thirdly, I think you are over-analyzing. I am guilty of this and it has brought me back to the boards after a 9 month hiatus. It sounds like you've made a great new life for yourself and you should enjoy and focus on that.
Keep your boundaries nice and firm and don't look back!
getfree