Welcome to the BPD family, it sounds like you are in the right place. Can you tell us a bit more about the situation and why you feel you drove her away. We are all only human and you reacted as best you could. I am sure there are lots of people here that can help and support if you are able to give us some more detail on your situation?
LW
She does not know she is that way... .I screwed up cause .,I either tried to fix her problem ... .instead of listening... .or when she yelled at me for what I thought was no reason... .I invalidated her expression... .3 Year battle and now I see I could have help
I feel like crap ... .thank you for response... .I am going to bed