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Author Topic: AMAZING unknown truth has changed my Gemini daughter  (Read 379 times)
Fedupmum
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« on: July 24, 2013, 01:02:43 AM »

Hey, I've been a long time observer on these boards, I have felt your pain and cried your tears with you! All of you have inspired me.

Anyway. We all know just how sensitive our children can be.

My daughter under the incorrect classification, is Gemini, and one characteristic of geminis is that they have 2 distinct sides - sound like bi polar to anyone?

However, under the correct classification, she is Taurus. Strong willed and bullish.

Since she found this out she has said she feels a lot more stable, now that she is able to associate herself as being strong minded and stubborn, rather than unstable and with a split personality. There have been no major dramas for a good couple of weeks!

It's amazing, she is so sensitive, she seems to have really lathed on to this and it seems to be doing wonders for her!

She has just entered a new period in her life where stability will be really important, so this information has been a god send!

Please let your darlings know, maybe it will change them in the same way, to be truer to their true self!
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Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders
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« Reply #1 on: July 24, 2013, 08:33:25 AM »

 Thank you Fedupmum: Doing the right thing (click to insert in post) I love it.  Did you know astrology was used as part of the medical records?   

Whatever works and give our children a break from themselves.  I have been doing visual mediation with my daughter on the phone to calm her down from crying so hard.  I am big one on yoga and mediation. 

That will be a good one for validation.  Good point.  Gonna read up on my dd sign and remember all great things about it. 

Now, remember there are wonderful sides to Gemini. Very intelligent, loves to share that collected intelligence (love to talk.) Quick witted and make me laugh.  For the Gemini readers or children with BPD.  There is the balance to every person. 

All my best,

Fay   

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« Reply #2 on: July 24, 2013, 09:13:20 AM »

Hello fedupmum,

Glad that you finally decided to make a post after lurking for so long.  We are glad that you are here.

Would you be so kind as to make an introductory post on The New Members Board and tell us about yourself and your situation with your daughter?

It is good to hear that your d is open to some self discovery.  How that door opens is less important than what she discovers when she walks through that door.  How do you plan to support her and take care of yourself through this process?

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