Big talk this weekend

[lostandconfused6]

I am going to attempt to have a big talk this weekend with my BPDbf (if any of you have read my other posts i'm sure you know what it is) i am beyond nervous minus 1 little rage these last 2 weeks have been so great! He's really putting in effort to work on things now that he is out of school.

I'm nervous for a few reasons I don't want to upset things and send him into a negative mindset when he really is trying so hard. Another reason I don't want him to think that the other stuff he is doing doesn't matter. The last reason is I don't want to take the chance and just be dissapointed with the outcome.

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[I_Am_The_Fire]

Hi! I wish you good luck and that I hope it goes well!

[Pedro]

Good luck n best wishes for the outcome you're hoping for?

[lostandconfused6]

Well the talk this weekend was a bust, he came over and was in a not so great blah kinda mood so i assessed the situation and decided it would be best to not speak about  the topic at hand.

My fear about this is that it is never going to be resolved and he made some remarks sunday that really got under my skin in regards to it but i did my best to keep my cool and not start JADEing. I kept quiet and said as little as possible. I'm just so frustrated.

[Pedro]

Bide your time there will be other moments.
Take care & good luck.

Pedro

[lostandconfused6]

Bide your time there will be other moments.
Take care & good luck.

Pedro

thank you!