It’s a lot to process, especially for the kids.
Some practical matters to consider…
What’s to prevent her from filing a motion for modification later? Ask your atty if there’s anything that can be added to make this stick.
Consider refraining from offering her more time or any other concessions - it can set a precedent later. This is where you need to consider what you might offer verbally vs email or text.
She’s setup the perfect victim position - don’t be surprised when this gets reframed downstream…
Parenting with anyone with a PD is a lot of work.
Cherish the time you’ve got with your kids.
Some practical matters to consider…
What’s to prevent her from filing a motion for modification later? Ask your atty if there’s anything that can be added to make this stick.
Consider refraining from offering her more time or any other concessions - it can set a precedent later. This is where you need to consider what you might offer verbally vs email or text.
She’s setup the perfect victim position - don’t be surprised when this gets reframed downstream…
Parenting with anyone with a PD is a lot of work.
Cherish the time you’ve got with your kids.
I agree. She filed so many motions against me already I doubt this is the end. Securing my house and other assets was huge. Now it will only be over custody. It's funny how I'm just a normal dad normal guy always looking over my shoulder wondering what I'm doing wrong that she will twist some restraining order against me.
I also accepted no child support from her. So if she files anything I'm going for child support.
130k a year. She's broke, can't pay her rent, blamed it all on me. She doesn't realize once she spends her buyout, she'll be broke again
All she is doing is going out with random guys looking for her next provider. 13 years and looking back, I was a paycheck. Saved everything and did it right. First downturn and we were ready, but nope she wanted to blow through all of our money. I tried to put her on a budget, she said it was abuse and punishment.