Hello. I have been in a relationship with a man for a year now and it has been tough to say the least. I have to keep proving i love him through his "tricks". His word. Many percieved hurts. Once I realized he has this disorder I did a lot of reading. The information on how I handle issues has been priceless! It is still a struggle though.
Hi Holdingon,
We are happy you found our site as everyone here has been effected by BPD in some way. R/s with pBPD can be particularly challenging as we depersonalize many of the behaviors associated with the disorder combined with their need for reassurance due to abandonment fears.
I hope you can post more when you are able. There's abundant support here amongst our members
CVM