Get the cable out of your name and do what you can to get your name off of the lease.I think you'll feel better for doing it,and you'll be taking back some of your own power.As it is,she's still controlling you with FOG,and will continue to do so as long as it benefits her.
If you're truly wanting out,you'll need to do this,and she'll need to learn to take on her own responsability.
I've tried everything I could think of, The lease is gonna affect her she would have to re apply on her own and she would not get approved, then she would have to ask her parents to co sign and she like to put on this front that she is independent. I already signed the paper. All she has to do is go to the leasing office and sign and my name will be gone.
The cable issue is that big of a deal. She just won't do it. I called and got a website that we both can sit down at and change it into her name. I emailed her the link and explained the process. She hasn't responded and I'm not pushing the issue. I'm trying to keep NC alive and well, and she has me in the Ice Age right now. I wish she would sign the lease paper and transfer the bill into her name and I would be ok to never see her again.