you have a lawyer, yes?
I do and she does too and hers is a total shark who she's used before. It will all shake out however the legal system deems it to, unfortunately if you're kind (or foolish) and put someones name on things, they can take everything you have whether or not that was your intent or not. As my attorney said, there is what might be considered "legally" right, but that doesn't make it "morally" right... .
As I go through this process it really has started to test my belief system, whether good really does triumph or is reality that the strong survive no matter what rules or standards they break... .
NS