BPD and known territory

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

Some thoughts just crossed my mind so I decided to share them with you.

During our relationship, we have rarely hanged out in my flat. Very rarely.

Most of the time we spent in her apartment.

Did you have the same experience with your BPD partners, is it a BPD behavior pattern or is is something completely different?

[blackbirdsong]

Some thoughts just crossed my mind so I decided to share them with you.

During our relationship, we have rarely hanged out in my flat. Very rarely.

Most of the time we spent in her apartment.

Did you have the same experience with your BPD partners, is it a BPD behavior pattern or is is something completely different?

[rosesarered777]

The same happened to me. I would be over at her place 98% of the time hanging out, watching TV, etc.

[hopealways]

She was actually at my place 99% of the time, but the point is nothing is equal, there's never any 50/50 with the BPD, there are always extremes and this is another example. In a normal healthy relationship there would be a more even distribution of things.