I am disappointed that I didn't listen to my gut that was screaming and now I feel like I am the one with the problem. I can't share the things I put up with from this man because I am so embarrassed that I was taken in.
Hey Kathy, No need to feel embarrassed. Most of us have been down the same path before you [read: me], which is why we're here. If it makes you feel any better, I ignored my gut feelings, too. I think you almost have to ignore them in order to be in a r/s with a pwBPD. There is much to learn on this site and a lot of supportive people. Welcome!
LuckyJim