if she were fishing for a reaction and validation, wouldn’t she have me unblocked so I had a way of contacting her?
It's all part of the BPD game. She posts to get your interest but keeps you blocked so, in her mind, it will frustrate you and make you even more determined to contact her. In true BPD fashion, she has to retain the 'power' at all times.
My exBPD would break up with me - this was before we all had home internet or mobile phones - but she would continue to come into the pub where she knew I'd be. She made sure I knew she was there but would never speak to me. This is the equivalent of getting my attention then keeping me blocked. If I wasn't in on the night she was in, she knew the bar staff would later tell me she'd been in. She knew exactly what she was doing.
As I've said before, your ex g/f will open communication channels when and if she's ready and you just have to accept these very frustrating games she's playing at the moment if you still want her.


