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I am just a complete mess ya'll.
I am just a complete mess ya'll.
I'll share a quote from someone from a different site, that said this to me many years ago when I was first trying to make sense of why my then-wife acted like she did:
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...of the 157 mental disorders listed in the APA's diagnostic manual, BPD is the one most notorious for making the abused partners feel like they may be losing their minds. And this is largely why therapists typically see far more of those abused partners -- coming in to find out if they are going insane -- than they ever see of the BPDers themselves.
So, can you see the futility of reaching out to the person who made you feel this way, in order to resolve your feelings?
If drinking water from a well made you sick, you should not drink more from it.


