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A 3 Minute Lesson
on Ending Conflict
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Don't Be Invalidating
Listen with Empathy -
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Setting Boundaries
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Overcoming insecurity Rubyjs 4 74 Last post September 19, 2017, 10:16:07 AM
by Rubyjs
BPD partner's jealous of my success. paintingitblack 6 89 Last post September 19, 2017, 09:40:10 AM
by Meili
Blaming most of what i experience on my wife Kronos 3 65 Last post September 19, 2017, 08:33:11 AM
by Tattered Heart
I ask her to get help and she tells me its her problem Jack boots 4 94 Last post September 18, 2017, 11:54:31 PM
by BluesBrother
Help! Abused2 1 21 Last post September 18, 2017, 11:02:41 PM
by flourdust
My wife may have BPD. She is so demanding. victory15 2 58 Last post September 18, 2017, 05:25:08 PM
by victory15
Am I too sensitive? Why does it always feel the good times won't be back? JoeBPD81 4 88 Last post September 18, 2017, 03:12:50 PM
by heartandwhole
Feeling "left behind" halcyon 2 60 Last post September 18, 2017, 01:21:24 PM
by Tattered Heart
Looking for wisdom frosty89 3 61 Last post September 18, 2017, 01:11:40 PM
by frosty89
Chaos, rage and control Letloverule 3 71 Last post September 18, 2017, 01:03:14 PM
by Tattered Heart
Safe way to talk through symptoms of upwBPD with GP with upwBPD present nomotime 4 66 Last post September 18, 2017, 12:15:51 PM
by Tattered Heart
Getting Some Value « 1 2  All » MrRight 11 136 Last post September 17, 2017, 11:15:51 AM
by MrRight
Simple Reminder 2Strong2Long 1 40 Last post September 17, 2017, 10:48:59 AM
by Mutt
I'm Walking in Eggshells! darthcujo 1 65 Last post September 17, 2017, 10:46:35 AM
by Mutt
Cycling around the BPD track Cole 2 62 Last post September 16, 2017, 03:39:50 PM
by Cole
Advice for talking to a 10yo about BPD mom? « 1 2  All » Voltaire 11 98 Last post September 16, 2017, 03:11:38 PM
by Cole
I revealed his BPD diagnosis in marriage counseling. I'm glad I did it. « 1 2  All » OnceHadMoxie 16 202 Last post September 16, 2017, 01:42:54 PM
by BluesBrother
Finally making sense AskingWhy 5 180 Last post September 16, 2017, 08:45:10 AM
by Dkandyk
BPD Long term relationship Case600lp 3 104 Last post September 15, 2017, 07:33:54 PM
by BPDBuddy
I do not think it is a lost cause Mr Mann 4 82 Last post September 15, 2017, 07:01:41 PM
by BPDBuddy
DBT is changing our life! PeaceHarmony 6 89 Last post September 15, 2017, 05:05:28 PM
by BPDBuddy
I don't enable anymore but he rages on me Firebird34 5 63 Last post September 15, 2017, 01:46:53 PM
by 2Strong2Long
My boyfriend "pushes" me away. Need advice. PeacefulCareBear 4 76 Last post September 15, 2017, 10:31:47 AM
by BluesBrother
My BPD Girlfriend has left « 1 2 3  All » mattmc99 21 9410 Last post September 15, 2017, 06:04:35 AM
by Rubyjs
Family says I was the only one she included as family oranges_c6870 3 54 Last post September 15, 2017, 03:56:42 AM
by BluesBrother
Its been awhile - how are you doing? believer55 3 55 Last post September 15, 2017, 03:43:55 AM
by BluesBrother
How do I make sense of stay/leave my BPD partner? OakStBPD 3 55 Last post September 15, 2017, 03:35:32 AM
by BluesBrother
I just realized why my marriage has been so difficult SoulSick 3 74 Last post September 15, 2017, 03:29:15 AM
by BluesBrother
Boyfriend suddenly stopped talking to me Reebz 3 42 Last post September 15, 2017, 03:17:45 AM
by BluesBrother
I am here to learn K.o.t. 5 74 Last post September 15, 2017, 02:49:52 AM
by BluesBrother
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