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Loving a BPD Spouse or Significant Other,
What Does it Take to Be in a Relationship
Why We Struggle in Our Relationships
Is Your Relationship Breaking Down?
Codependency and Codependent Relationships
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Moving Forward...sort of... daverisk 4 77 Last post May 15, 2017, 07:52:48 AM
by JoeBPD81
Why is the birth Family of a BPD so willing to ignore the situation?? Ox 7 144 Last post May 14, 2017, 11:39:28 AM
by Ox
Short Summary of 10 years married to BPD with 3 young kids escispectre 6 121 Last post May 13, 2017, 11:17:21 PM
by waverider
Spouse with BPD Wutnow32 3 54 Last post May 13, 2017, 11:09:41 PM
by Panshekay
To bring up BPD with the undiagnosed partner, or not? HelenaHandbasket 3 76 Last post May 13, 2017, 05:12:17 PM
by escispectre
Lesbian, polyamorous, and my partner has BPD MissMuffin 3 68 Last post May 12, 2017, 02:25:13 PM
by Grey Kitty
Being heard eggfry 3 66 Last post May 12, 2017, 10:40:15 AM
by isilme
Hi From California SunlitLady 2 49 Last post May 12, 2017, 08:42:40 AM
by Tattered Heart
Updates: The Good and The Bad WitzEndWife 5 120 Last post May 12, 2017, 08:40:54 AM
by Tattered Heart
He is Building UP Tattered Heart 9 170 Last post May 12, 2017, 08:20:10 AM
by Tattered Heart
New and want to learn TayTay 1 33 Last post May 12, 2017, 08:12:36 AM
by Tattered Heart
Little joy in 30-year relationship Luna Tuna 3 72 Last post May 12, 2017, 08:11:09 AM
by Tattered Heart
Why does he block all my options ? AnonUK 0 30 Last post May 12, 2017, 05:43:06 AM
by AnonUK
Bad day_short frustration fuse JoeBPD81 7 245 Last post May 10, 2017, 11:36:29 AM
by DaddyBear77
Introduction hadenoughfred 3 44 Last post May 10, 2017, 10:06:20 AM
by Mutt
I have now had 4 BPD partners « 1 2  All » BPDGuy1 19 508 Last post May 09, 2017, 03:35:19 PM
by Skip
BPD Wife has first DBT Session Tomorrow Sprout2 5 99 Last post May 09, 2017, 06:44:47 AM
by flourdust
Still standing - barely! Staying Alive 1 48 Last post May 09, 2017, 03:13:40 AM
by waverider
Feeling stuck. Is there a way out? tree life 3 97 Last post May 08, 2017, 06:35:42 PM
by ArleighBurke
Another Weekend, Another Drama!!... and how to be friends? Beardface 3 119 Last post May 08, 2017, 05:24:57 PM
by Mavrik
Hello AI 1 39 Last post May 08, 2017, 07:28:44 AM
by heartandwhole
Taking the step to identify my partner's disorder in hopes of saving me miamimommy 4 197 Last post May 08, 2017, 05:15:17 AM
by heartandwhole
MOVED: She has an account on a dating site.... wendydarling 0 33 Last post May 08, 2017, 12:54:06 AM
by wendydarling
8 yrs of marriage, husband failed to mention he has BPD! « 1 2  All » hopeless_in_tx 18 196 Last post May 07, 2017, 08:11:06 PM
by BrianTx
Intro and question tennysongirl 1 43 Last post May 07, 2017, 03:31:38 PM
by WifeOfProbableBP
Reading partner wanted! SavingJ 0 43 Last post May 07, 2017, 12:45:24 PM
by SavingJ
I stood up to my BPD friend SummerStorm 2 141 Last post May 07, 2017, 12:12:39 PM
by SummerStorm
Wife has BPD Joe Gut 1 77 Last post May 07, 2017, 11:04:39 AM
by Shane87
Destroying personal property when enraged - what to do? Lucky Jim 9 312 Last post May 07, 2017, 05:41:33 AM
by ortac77
Help with BPD neighbor confusedbyBPD 6 119 Last post May 06, 2017, 02:04:11 AM
by Turkish
Trust (and the art of "letting go") « 1 2  All » halcyon 12 242 Last post May 05, 2017, 10:58:31 PM
by waverider
Healthy consistency tree life 0 38 Last post May 05, 2017, 04:23:19 PM
by tree life
Not sure what is going on here... « 1 2 ... 5 6  All » MaroonLiquid 53 1075 Last post May 05, 2017, 03:57:41 PM
by MaroonLiquid
First post Share on 3 54 Last post May 05, 2017, 03:34:29 PM
by Mutt
are things getting better, or am i delusional? Atl951 2 67 Last post May 05, 2017, 12:55:44 PM
by Atl951
Rekindled after a Year Apart - Next Moves ninthofdecember 2 93 Last post May 05, 2017, 08:26:50 AM
by heartandwhole
My Downfall and the part I played in it! PortyPerson 3 119 Last post May 05, 2017, 08:24:08 AM
by halcyon
New to this- trying to navigate how to help my BPD partner Philosopher99 3 66 Last post May 05, 2017, 08:11:00 AM
by Sluggo
Do I point out she's breaking a rule that she established? Caboose 4 96 Last post May 05, 2017, 07:19:35 AM
by waverider
Is it a good sign or bad ? AnonUK 3 95 Last post May 05, 2017, 03:45:04 AM
by AnonUK
Resisting manipulation Dragon72 6 124 Last post May 04, 2017, 05:02:39 PM
by Happy outside
Using past hurts as a knife Cole 4 94 Last post May 04, 2017, 04:47:04 PM
by Cole
I have mental health issues too. Tturnipp 4 106 Last post May 04, 2017, 04:35:41 PM
by Ox
My husband with bdp Jenny mc 2 63 Last post May 04, 2017, 04:14:54 PM
by heartandwhole
Introduction toman 2 48 Last post May 04, 2017, 03:26:07 PM
by heartandwhole
Should I leave? Charlotte456 4 87 Last post May 04, 2017, 03:17:49 PM
by DaddyBear77
She came back but will she change? 617788 4 100 Last post May 04, 2017, 10:37:52 AM
by isilme
Forgetful 12years 1 45 Last post May 04, 2017, 06:11:20 AM
by JoeBPD81
Other People's Problems Cole 8 183 Last post May 04, 2017, 03:32:20 AM
by waverider
Challenging a partner with BPD Scarletstar 5 120 Last post May 03, 2017, 06:57:25 PM
by ArleighBurke
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