Spinning1227,
Wow, I am hearing my story by reading yours
I am in almost the same boat, just a year or so ahead. We are actually, legally divorced and 'nesting' for lack of a better term. She flops down in hotel and college dorm rooms with every disgusting buck toothed 20 year old Asian college student that will give her the time of day. She thinks my refusing to walk away from my kids and continuing to be a good parent makes her look bad. I never made her look bad, she does an excellent job herself. I mean as I detach, its actually funny
How old are your kids? Has there been any legal seperation?
Hang in there
. Someday our kids will see the obvious