no contact order, CAS involved, help

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

Is getting CAS out of your lives better than having professionals convince CAS they're barking up the wrong tree, that is, the wrong parent?  Could it be possible that they could be helpful later, um, once they agree it's time to look around at the other parent?  Or are they that far off base that they're basically just enablers and negative advocates?

[ForeverDad]

Is getting CAS out of your lives better than having professionals convince CAS they're barking up the wrong tree, that is, the wrong parent?  Could it be possible that they could be helpful later, um, once they agree it's time to look around at the other parent?  Or are they that far off base that they're basically just enablers and negative advocates?

[allblameonme]

 they're basically just enablers and negative advocates? <--- that is exactly what they are

they tell her she is a victim, and she had to take a course for victims of domestic abuse... .Basically they are re-enforcing her bad behaviour and vindicating her responsibility over her actions... .She just a poor victim after all