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« on: January 12, 2014, 03:35:32 PM »

I just had a phone conversation with a friend back home. hadn't spoke to him in a quite a while & he knew me & my ex were having problems last summer. he asked me how things were & I said the story of that relationship is a long & complicated one. Too long for a phone conversation.

He said "Ok, sum it up mate". I was stumped for a brief discription, best i could say in one sentence was... .

"Imagine being a good boy, going to heaven & then slowly realizing you were actually in hell".



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« Reply #1 on: January 12, 2014, 03:51:13 PM »

BPD or the more accurately labelled " dangerous a+*%#le that should be avoided like the plague".
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« Reply #2 on: January 12, 2014, 03:59:55 PM »

"She has a serious mental illness, I didn't know that going in, and I was very susceptible and naive; I suffered emotional, psychological and physical abuse before I wised up and bailed."
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« Reply #3 on: January 12, 2014, 04:00:46 PM »

"It was indeed, too good to be true."
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« Reply #4 on: January 12, 2014, 04:03:43 PM »

Walt Whitman said it best! "we were together, I forget the rest" maybe that's two sentences but both short enough for one. Does that still qualify? Lmao

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« Reply #5 on: January 12, 2014, 04:35:11 PM »

I could describe it in one word, but the moderators would pull me over and book me !

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« Reply #6 on: January 12, 2014, 04:37:06 PM »

I could describe it in one word, but the moderators would pull me over and book me !

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Superb!  Smiling (click to insert in post)

I got booked a few times last year! 
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« Reply #7 on: January 12, 2014, 04:41:19 PM »

"Imagine being a good boy, going to heaven & then slowly realizing you were actually in hell".

Say's it all for me.   :'(  Good one Moonie.
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« Reply #8 on: January 12, 2014, 04:42:18 PM »

Havoc ... . But with hopes of happiness and peace... . Havoc.
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« Reply #9 on: January 12, 2014, 04:43:56 PM »

imagine you were Ulysses, and when you heard the siren song, no one tied you up.
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« Reply #10 on: January 12, 2014, 05:07:57 PM »

No self-respecting man would give a damn about this woman and you shouldn't either.
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« Reply #11 on: January 12, 2014, 05:18:43 PM »

Don Quixote vs Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde
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« Reply #12 on: January 12, 2014, 05:29:56 PM »

Chaos!
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« Reply #13 on: January 12, 2014, 05:31:02 PM »

I just had a phone conversation with a friend back home. hadn't spoke to him in a quite a while & he knew me & my ex were having problems last summer. he asked me how things were & I said the story of that relationship is a long & complicated one. Too long for a phone conversation.

He said "Ok, sum it up mate". I was stumped for a brief discription, best i could say in one sentence was... .

"Imagine being a good boy, going to heaven & then slowly realizing you were actually in hell".


Jesus that's good gonna have to think, I love this thread
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« Reply #14 on: January 12, 2014, 05:40:06 PM »

I just remembered my dads 'one liner' last time we recycled.

"you're polishing a turd son!"



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« Reply #15 on: January 12, 2014, 05:43:54 PM »

A romance porn movie written by Steven King

A crazy, chaotic hazy sex romance thriller novel that you wake up at the end and feel like you've just been groomed and abused by a paedophile.

A twisted insane romance that at the end of you know why all the evil in the world exists

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« Reply #16 on: January 12, 2014, 05:51:10 PM »

I just remembered my dads 'one liner' last time we recycled.

"you're polishing a turd son!"


Haha, I love this!
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« Reply #17 on: January 12, 2014, 05:53:59 PM »

Moonie

How long did it last your recycle last time? How many times did you recycled?
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« Reply #18 on: January 12, 2014, 05:54:58 PM »

A four year battle for supremacy that ended in a draw.
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« Reply #19 on: January 12, 2014, 05:55:05 PM »

I just remembered my dads 'one liner' last time we recycled.

"you're polishing a turd son!"


Haha, I love this!

I need to clarify! I meant when me & my ex recycled! Not me & my dad! That would be just wrong!  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #20 on: January 12, 2014, 05:58:31 PM »

"I was devoted to her in a way that she could not return, and it took me 25 years to accept it."

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« Reply #21 on: January 12, 2014, 06:01:41 PM »

Moonie

How long did it last your recycle last time? How many times did you recycled?

That's TWO sentences Pearl! And a very strange description too!  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

Lots of little break ups (few days to a week). Two major break ups. Both times she run out to a replacement & both new romances burst within 3 months. And i was dumb enough to go back into her crazy world after both.

So recycled twice after 3 months apart. It took 3 months to cycle round to $hit with me this time so I've walked out of it into NC.

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« Reply #22 on: January 12, 2014, 07:06:15 PM »

3 miles of bad road...

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« Reply #23 on: January 12, 2014, 07:06:22 PM »

A year and a half relationship with an illusion.
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« Reply #24 on: January 12, 2014, 07:15:33 PM »

   Blinded folded and ran backwards through a corn field for 11 months!
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« Reply #25 on: January 12, 2014, 07:32:40 PM »

Twisted.
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« Reply #26 on: January 12, 2014, 07:37:26 PM »

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times... .
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« Reply #27 on: January 12, 2014, 08:08:20 PM »

Or,

As ZBB would say... .

There's a note on the table said I ain't coming back til your sorry ass is gone. I'm tired of you're cheating and running around , never saw the wrong in anything you done... .

I'm from the south so I hope you know who ZBB is... . they say it so well.
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