Porn\Women in General as a trigger?

[kfifd196]

Hi... . Anyone ever heard of Porn or Women in general, being a trigger for rages?  My wife found a few porn pix on the laptop, from years ago and went into a destructive rage, causing $1,000 damage to the house.  She did it again, when a Jessica Simpson ad appeared during the Superbowl.  I wasn't even in the room and was accused of "wanting" her and having sex with her... . She bit me and started beating herself up, smacking her skull and pulling her hair and crying hysterically, saying something about "can't put herself through this again" whatever that meant... . I'm sure it alluded to something that must've happened in her past, that I don't know about... .   It seems she's paranoid about porn, for whatever reason.  She's an absolutely beautiful woman and used to model and resembles Jessica Simpson.  She also flipped out one night, because the Bachelor was on TV and, as she said, "I know why you have that on!  There's girls on there!" (I went to the bathroom as Wheel of Fortune ended and I didn't change the channel or turn off the TV, so Bachelor was on next and came on while I was in the bathroom).  Anything to explain this? 

[arn131arn]

Mine freaked out because I think Natalie Portman is the most absolute beautiful woman in the world. Sorry, she is. It's actually scientifically proven.

Anyway, she raged and got all pissed, because, yeah! Big Arn here, he has an absolute good shot of being on the same street as Natalie F-Ing Portman!

I mean, it's a complete circle jerk, a fruit roll up of the mind. And then when I said well don't you think Matthew Mccaunohey is sexy?

Well, din dat rite der, dat der wuz difrint rite der!

[kfifd196]

It appears to be a double standard... . She flipped about ANY girl's name or number on my phone, relative, friend, whatever.  She actually convinced me to delete them all!  Then it was on to Facebook, questioning EVERY girl that commented or was friends with me.  She asked me early on if I thought it was ok to have ex's as friends on FB or have their pix on there.  I said no and didn't have any and she said she didn't believe in it either.  However, I recently found 2 pix of her ex's on her FB and called her out on it and she FREAKED AT ME, then I found a few porn sites on her laptop like Guys with huge C***s and she was "APPALLED" I would say that or even accuse her of that!  Total denial!  But, if she sees a woman on my computer, she gets jealous and vicious!  Is this normal?

[arn131arn]

It's about as normal as a football bat!

[HappyNihilist]

My exbf and I both very much enjoyed porn; he didn't get jealous of me partaking in it. But men on TV could be a trigger.

Men in real life were definitely a problem. He hated the idea that I had sex or r/s's before him, and yet he showed me nude photos of his ex and talked about past sexual encounters a lot and even compared me to other women he'd been with.