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Gmanaplus
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« on: October 28, 2014, 08:21:59 PM »

I have try to talk and explain to people about the person i live with ( my wife) the emotional rollercoster it seen that i am on interacting with her, the anger, the adult in control of very one and everything in front of others then with me a temper tantrum little kid home with me. i need people to talk to who is or who has dealt someone like my wife.

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« Reply #1 on: October 28, 2014, 08:36:20 PM »

I have try to talk and explain to people about the person i live with ( my wife) the emotional rollercoster it seen that i am on interacting with her, the anger, the adult in control of very one and everything in front of others then with me a temper tantrum little kid home with me. i need people to talk to who is or who has dealt someone like my wife.

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« Reply #2 on: October 28, 2014, 09:16:20 PM »

I have try to talk and explain to people about the person i live with ( my wife) the emotional rollercoster it seen that i am on interacting with her, the anger, the adult in control of very one and everything in front of others then with me a temper tantrum little kid home with me. i need people to talk to who is or who has dealt someone like my wife.

Welcome Gmanaplus!  I stopped trying to explain the insanity to the blissfully uninitiated in my life.  I simply explain that "she has deep issues that prevent her from having stable relationships and she needs help" or sometimes I go with the simple, "she is f___ing nuts."

I have found this community here to be a most excellent place to vent and share the stories and scars of a BPD experience.  All of us here have been through the ups and downs that are so hard to explain to people whe have never gotten lost in a BPD forrest.  I look forward to hearing of your experience.
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Angry obsessive thoughts about another weaken your state of mind and well being. If you must have revenge, then take it by choosing to be happy and let them go forever.
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« Reply #3 on: October 29, 2014, 12:21:17 AM »

I have actually chose to not be friends with several people over the course of the last week because they don't understand BPD. It's hard to talk to someone about wanting to work out my marriage with my wife and have a friend repeatedly tell me to run. They have no idea what is going on and do not want to educate themselves and I made the choice to remove those people from my life.
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