Just wondering how to move forward with the least amount of game playing... .thoughts?
This is a wonderful... .healthy question to ask yourself!
Many of us nons that end up with pwBPD like to "help" others... .even after they reject us. We end up doing things for others that they should be doing for themselves. It ends up insulating the other person from the consequences of their actions... .both good and bad...
So... .if I live with you... and decide to take off... .and you keep running around behind my back making sure my mail gets scanned and sent to me... . Does that seem like "saving" me from the consequences of my decision to leave?
I would keep his mail together... .and maybe reach out once a week... to let him know you have it... .
Thoughts?
FF