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Dont know how to help my daughter she is 15 i love her dearly but i hate her aswell i know this sounds horrible i have tried therapy hospital stays dont know how much more verbal abuse or hits i can take. How can i make it better.

[crazyhouse101]

Dont know how to help my daughter she is 15 i love her dearly but i hate her aswell i know this sounds horrible i have tried therapy hospital stays dont know how much more verbal abuse or hits i can take. How can i make it better.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Turkish]

Hello crazyhouse101,

I'm glad you found us!



You told a lot in few words. There are many members here who have struggled similarly with their children who can support you. Has she been diagnosed with BPD (or has it been suggested)? Substance abuse or other self-harm issues?

To start, I invite you to take a look at the Family Connections links in the right-hand sidebar of the board. There is a lot of information to chew on which can help you understand her, and help you communicate in ways which can help reduce conflict.

When you say "hits" are you speaking metaphorically, or is she physically violent?

Turkish