Consiqenses of No Contact

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Hello everyone

What are the short and long term consiqenses for my son if I'm not in his life?

I'm working hard on getting well and learning to deal with his BPD mother, haven't been with my son for over 4 weeks. After her rape alligation I needed time to regroup.

Thank you.

[JerryRG]

Hello everyone

What are the short and long term consiqenses for my son if I'm not in his life?

I'm working hard on getting well and learning to deal with his BPD mother, haven't been with my son for over 4 weeks. After her rape alligation I needed time to regroup.

Thank you.

[MapleBob]

Seems like the kind of thing that would require a pretty serious Pro/Con list to adequately process.

I think that long-term it is in your best interest (and the best interest of your son) to maintain a relationship with your son, while maintaining as superficial and business-like a relationship with your ex as possible.

You also might want to take this topic over to the Coparenting or Divorce section.