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[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

I've posted on this family law topic a couple of times and I have posted many other topics and got great feed back. Like many people 9n here, I was in great pain for many years and unspeakable pain when I got my ruthless final discard. I want to thank everyone for there heart felt words. And many posts I read that helped me along. Many small light bulb moments make for healing. So many times I wanted to walk away from this whole nightmare and let s9 decide on his own when he got old enough but my T, my family and the good people on here stepped up to the plate and gave me the strength to keep going. One day at a time, one hr at a time some times. I read the word solutions, it's funny one small word can open up so much clarity. I have always been offering solutions. She create the turmoil,  the drama and I was running around in my head trying to fix, solve, give solutions, only to be ignored or to be made to feel like a fool, a nothing. Emotional and mental abuse.drop a situation in my lap, create drama and offer no solution. Keep me in a turmoil,  move the goal posts, think things are good than de ignored, or try to figure what I did wrong and be told if I don't know what I did, what is the use in telling you. So much turmoil and drama. Solutions, what a simple word and it opened up another door to mental freedom for me. I blamed my self for years, her emotional abuse crushed me for years. And now I see clearly how emotional abuse works. I feel for the first time in years that I am not responsible for what happened. I was a victim of severe manuplation, emotional and mental abuse. I knew it but couldn't feel it, now I feel it. It's like I can see how the whole structure of npd/BPD abuse works. I could crash and burn tomorrow, this isn't my first ah ha moment but it is one of the biggest healing leaps I've taken. Now when I do crash and burn it do get over it much faster and it's not as severe as in the past.

[bus boy]

I've posted on this family law topic a couple of times and I have posted many other topics and got great feed back. Like many people 9n here, I was in great pain for many years and unspeakable pain when I got my ruthless final discard. I want to thank everyone for there heart felt words. And many posts I read that helped me along. Many small light bulb moments make for healing. So many times I wanted to walk away from this whole nightmare and let s9 decide on his own when he got old enough but my T, my family and the good people on here stepped up to the plate and gave me the strength to keep going. One day at a time, one hr at a time some times. I read the word solutions, it's funny one small word can open up so much clarity. I have always been offering solutions. She create the turmoil,  the drama and I was running around in my head trying to fix, solve, give solutions, only to be ignored or to be made to feel like a fool, a nothing. Emotional and mental abuse.drop a situation in my lap, create drama and offer no solution. Keep me in a turmoil,  move the goal posts, think things are good than de ignored, or try to figure what I did wrong and be told if I don't know what I did, what is the use in telling you. So much turmoil and drama. Solutions, what a simple word and it opened up another door to mental freedom for me. I blamed my self for years, her emotional abuse crushed me for years. And now I see clearly how emotional abuse works. I feel for the first time in years that I am not responsible for what happened. I was a victim of severe manuplation, emotional and mental abuse. I knew it but couldn't feel it, now I feel it. It's like I can see how the whole structure of npd/BPD abuse works. I could crash and burn tomorrow, this isn't my first ah ha moment but it is one of the biggest healing leaps I've taken. Now when I do crash and burn it do get over it much faster and it's not as severe as in the past.