We're almost through the long weekend gang

[kc sunshine]

I don't know about you all, but weekends are definitely toughest for me, and holiday weekends the worst. How has this one been for you? Mine has been okay, even though my ex told me she's been seeing someone new since we've been broken up (three weeks, and we've been broken up four). That must mean that she was on the horizon earlier as well. So strange.

I've found that I'm a little harder on the people I love, a little more combative. And I'm usually the big peacemaker of my family. I hope that I can recover my patience and equanimity.

[Herodias]

I know... .imagine how awful it is for whoever is around our exes! I remember holidays well... .always a nightmare! We can be glad for the peace! Mine hated the 4th of July,

[kc sunshine]

Ha, that's true BH! That's a great idea-- let's remember the difficult trips and long weekends! The fights picked just before we were about to leave for a trip someplace, or an outing!

[Herodias]

Ha, that's true BH! That's a great idea-- let's remember the difficult trips and long weekends! The fights picked just before we were about to leave for a trip someplace, or an outing!

Yes! That is the worst! Torture is traveling with my ex... .and FYI, when my ex got back from a trip with his gf, he immediately came over to my place, said they had a huge fight and it was over between them. He told me how much he loved me and wanted to come home to his wife... .I bet she would never guess he would be with me right after they arrive home from a week with her family! Just saying'... .things don't change with the next person! I have seen it from both sides... .It's getting ready to storm here, so I guess there will not be fireworks... .at least not at my house... .maybe inside his,

[Skyglass]

So glad this holiday weekend is almost over. The weekend has been nothing but emotional triggers for me no matter what I do. Good riddance!