I've takent this test once in the past and now. I am always surprised that I will tolerate the verbal abuse from my pwBPD because I score so high on Healthy Adult and Happy CHild. At the same time I guess the other schemas I use are just enough to allow me to put up with it, especially the Compliant Surrender. I also scored higher than average in self aggrandizer. I love the idolize phase and it makes me feel very special. I know I tend to have a few narcissistic tendencies. I read somewhere that people that tend narcissistic are often drawn to people with BPD.
THese results are very consistent with my relationship being the ONLY place where I have a hard time standing up for myself, feeling adequate, and having chaos.
Mode ---------------------------------- Vulnerable child Angry Child Enraged Child Impulsive Child Undisciplined Child Happy Child Compliant Surrender Detached Protector Detached Self-Soother Self-aggrandizer Bully and Attack mode Punishing Parent Demanding Parent Healthy Adult
| Tendency -------------- -- -- -- -- High High Mod -- -- Mod -- -- -- High
| Avg -------- 2.10 2.60 1.40 1.44 3.33 4.00 3.14 1.44 1.00 3.90 1.44 1.10 2.80 4.80
| 4+ ------- 1 2 0 0 4 7 3 0 0 8 0 0 2 9
| Compare to GP ------------------- Above norm Above norm -- -- Above norm -- Above norm -- -- Above norm -- -- -- --
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