Hi Portent-
I don't want to give up dancing. I've given it up once and I do believe it is one of the main things that will pull me out of this. Any advice on how to reset my mind and get it off of her when I'm dancing.
By creating new memories. Right now dancing and your ex are linked in your head, and by creating new dancing memories, with maybe a new dance club and new members and dance partners or whatever, that will take on a life of its own that has nothing to do with her. And it's good that you don't want to give up something you enjoy and consider helpful.
Also how did you guys get to the point where you could pull the trigger again.
By detaching fully from the relationship. You will know when you're fully detached. Have you looked at the stages of detachment over there------------>
lately? Where do you think you are in the detachment process?