Home page of BPDFamily.com, online relationship supportMember registration here
April 04, 2025, 09:10:27 AM *
Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.

Login with username, password and session length
Board Admins: Kells76, Once Removed, Turkish
Senior Ambassadors: EyesUp, SinisterComplex
  Help!   Boards   Please Donate Login to Post New?--Click here to register  
bing
Depression = 72% of members
Take the test, read about the implications, and check out the remedies.
111
Pages: [1]   Go Down
« previous next »
  Print  
Author Topic: I am so hurt and confused  (Read 489 times)
WFT2019
Fewer than 3 Posts
*
Offline Offline

What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
Posts: 1
« on: February 18, 2019, 06:44:32 PM »
 Paragraph header  (click to insert in post) I don’t know what to say on this board more than I am overwhelmed by my wife’s mental illness (I think it’s BPD) but I am not sure.  Cursing - won't cause site restrictions at Starbucks (click to insert in post)

I am overwhelmed. I want to talk with someone or chat with someone about this. 
Logged
PLEASE - NO RUN MESSAGES
This is a high level discussion board for solving ongoing, day-to-day relationship conflicts. Members may appear frustrated but they are here for constructive solutions to problems. This is not a place for relationship "stay" or "leave" discussions. Please read the specific guidelines for this group.
Red5
********
Offline Offline

What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
Relationship status: Separated
Posts: 1661
« Reply #1 on: February 18, 2019, 06:59:54 PM »
Hey there What the heck2019,

Ok, tell us what’s going on, here is an outline to help,
*how long have you been married?
*do you have children?
*is this your first or second marriages?
*what led you to suspect borderline personality disorder (BPD)?
*how long have you been researching BPD?
*can you describe the behaviors that you've been experiencing?  
*how are you feeling, holding up right now?

Keep Posting, tell us how we can help you!

Lots of veterans here... .lots of life experiences regarding BPD, there will be help for you here!

Kind regards... .Red5  
Logged
“We are so used to our own history, we do not see it as remarkable or out of the ordinary, whereas others might see it as horrendous. Further, we tend to minimize that which we feel shameful about.” {Quote} Patrick J. Carnes / author,
Skip
Site Director
***
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 7053
« Reply #2 on: February 18, 2019, 07:13:46 PM »
We are here to help.

Write the easiest thing that you can. For example, what happened today that has upset you?
Logged
 
Can You Help Us Stay on the Air in 2024?
Pages: [1]   Go Up
  Print  
BPDFamily.com > Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) > Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup > Topic: I am so hurt and confused
« previous next »
 
Jump to:  

Our 2023 Financial Sponsors
We are all appreciative of the members who provide the funding to keep BPDFamily on the air.
12years
alterK
AskingWhy
At Bay
Cat Familiar
CoherentMoose
drained1996
EZEarache
Flora and Fauna
ForeverDad
Gemsforeyes
Goldcrest
Harri
healthfreedom4s
hope2727
khibomsis
Lemon Squeezy
Memorial Donation (4)
Methos
Methuen
Mommydoc
Mutt
P.F.Change
Penumbra66
Red22
Rev
SamwizeGamgee
Skip
Swimmy55
Tartan Pants
Turkish
whirlpoollife


Powered by MySQL Powered by PHP Powered by SMF 1.1.21 | SMF © 2006-2020, Simple Machines Valid XHTML 1.0! Valid CSS!