feeling so lost

[without]

hello friends, i'm having a terrible time and life is getting harder and harder. i literally feel trapped at this moment. and i just would like to know that maybe i'm not all alone. i have no idea how to fix what is broken. this isn't much of an introduction, and I'm sorry. but this is where i'm at right now.

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[Gemsforeyes]

Dear without-
Welcome to our family.  Even with the minimal amount you’ve shared, I can feel your sadness.  But I feel very confident in assuring you that you’re not alone.  Many of us came here feeling so similar to how you feel tonight.  It’s so good that you’re reaching out for support.

When you’re up to it, please tell us more so we can talk with you.  This is a safe space to get it out.  Also, take some time to look through the “Tools” section and scan over some of the communication readings.

Finally, and this is the first hard acknowledgement, we cannot love our partners to wellness.  We only control ourselves.  So self-care needs to start.  And generally that self-care has been put on the way back burner when many of us first arrive here.

Warmly,
Gemsforeyes

[Ecan]

Hello Without
I can feel your pain and I am so sorry you are feeling so bad. I'm having a very hard time with life my self I feel so twisted Im not shore if I'm seeing real reality. I have found that on this site your not alone and just posting and putting it out there helps. I hate posting, I read post for months before getting the guts to post. Its hard but I'm making myself take chances to reach out. With all the reading I have done on this site I can tell you that what ever is going on in your life no one here will judge you at all. I think you can find everything that can happen in a human relationship here so no worries your safe here to reach out.