Hi Gaasdan,
stupidly decided not to ask her if she wanted to talk about it and gave her space. This of course led to her devaluing me for all of yesterday, but I ended up having a proper conversation with her and apologizing.
Or you might of avoided because you knew that it’s going to be a difficult situation because of how she reacts. I think that’s normal to avoid someone if you know that they’re going to give you a hard time - that’s not fun at all.
I’d suggest just show some sympathy to her - I’m sorry that it didn’t go well for you. - I hope that you get it the next time.
I explained that I didn't know, but that it could be because I'd been masturbating for the last couple of days.
I wouldn’t explain it because it’s difficult to put a positive spin on it I stead of having her lead you down a treacherous path - think of something light and make joke “It looks like I’ve been stressed out lately and its affecting me in more ways that one” and if she asks you about what’s stressing you out just say “Its just stress baby it’s nothing in general” Why make a thing about it it happens sometimes - just be light about it.