Im too sick to feel much, he’s threatening divorce

[Depression = 72% of members]

Long story short.  He accepted a graphic design job.  Decoded not to do it, it was too technical and taking too long for him for what we were charging.  Dumped it on me.  I didn't see it as a priority, admit I procrastinated and also, this was at a time I pretty much bedridden and seeking treatment last year.  I get the guy as much work as i could, then get an email that i read as, this is taking too long, if you cant sent the last image i cant publish so dont bother.  That was july. 

I figured we were done, hed get another artist to do the work, ok, cool, neither is happy but its over.  H gets ugly email this week stating we suck, hes going to publish and use our images (never paid for) and state that we didn’t complete the project in all his uses. 

H is livid, accuses me of lying, the whole gamut, im home sick, in bed, cant walk let alone do much else.  Had a huge scene all morning, says i ruined his name, etc.  he doesn't want this kind of work, mind you.  He hated it.  I could care less if people in this guys community want to contact us to edit their silly images or not.  So to me it was a bullying tactic to force us to send the final image that requires hours of work...  to H its some sort of cataclysm. 

I should feel upset, nervous, but i just feel insanely tired,.

[isilme]

Long story short.  He accepted a graphic design job.  Decoded not to do it, it was too technical and taking too long for him for what we were charging.  Dumped it on me.  I didn't see it as a priority, admit I procrastinated and also, this was at a time I pretty much bedridden and seeking treatment last year.  I get the guy as much work as i could, then get an email that i read as, this is taking too long, if you cant sent the last image i cant publish so dont bother.  That was july. 

I figured we were done, hed get another artist to do the work, ok, cool, neither is happy but its over.  H gets ugly email this week stating we suck, hes going to publish and use our images (never paid for) and state that we didn’t complete the project in all his uses. 

H is livid, accuses me of lying, the whole gamut, im home sick, in bed, cant walk let alone do much else.  Had a huge scene all morning, says i ruined his name, etc.  he doesn't want this kind of work, mind you.  He hated it.  I could care less if people in this guys community want to contact us to edit their silly images or not.  So to me it was a bullying tactic to force us to send the final image that requires hours of work...  to H its some sort of cataclysm. 

I should feel upset, nervous, but i just feel insanely tired,.

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[khibomsis]

Isilme, dear, rest. If you can't cope you can't  and that is all there is to it. I hope H has calmed down by now, when he gets back to baseline he might be able to hear how you feel. But for now the situation is what it is. You stressing about it is not going to help you get the peace you need.

Do check in and let us know how it is going?

 
Khib