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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
Relationship status: Dating
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No two cases are the same. But Things I dealt with were:
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April 23, 2020, 07:19:43 PM »
No two cases are the same. My exgf was not
Very dramatic. But Things I dealt with were:
Alcoholic
Bulimic
Self-mutilating
Dissociated and isolated from stress
Walk out during arguments
Lack of education and career
Inordinate focus on social media and makeup/weight/appearance
Impulsive sex (for money) and promiscuity
No close friends
Multiple jobs that ended badly
Silent treatment / cut off with no contact
Moves on very fast to new bf
Not interested in my life; everything revolves around her needs and wants
Intense shame (would be a self critic on her own, acknowledge she is bad)
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: Ex-partner
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Re: I suspect wife has BPD
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Quote from: blue6314 on April 23, 2020, 07:19:43 PM
No two cases are the same. My exgf was not
Very dramatic. But Things I dealt with were:
You just described everything my ex went through. This is off topic to this thread but do you mind my asking how it ended?
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Relationship status: Dating
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Re: I suspect wife has BPD
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I will also add:
Gaslighting
Lies
Ended badly. I broke with her, tried to be amicable. I viewed her social media, observed without judgment she had a new bf. She then retaliated harshly.
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