Hi smallbirds,
That is so great that your daughter is progressing in therapy! My DD18 was recently admitted to inpatient (not her first rodeo) from her college and spent a lot of time researching and calling longer term treatment facilities. Unfortunately I did not succeed in striking while the iron was hot and getting a door to door transfer, which greatly limited my insurance options, and then she decided that she felt better on her meds and needed no further therapy or treatment. Defying all recommendations. Since she is 18, I can only hope for the best but prepare myself for the next round of events.
Anyway, I just thought I would share the results of my research. Among tons of other searching, I found this list:
https://www.bpdvideo.com/borderline-personality-disorder-help/residential-treatment-centers. It seems to have most all of the good BPD treatment centers I uncovered during rest of my searches. I went through them systematically and called most of them to speak with admissions. My finalists at the end of the day and with my insurance were Sierra Tuscon and Timberline Knolls. Pros & Cons of each - which I'm sure you will fins with any treatment facility. One place I spoke to that I was really impressed by (not on the list) is
https://paradigmmalibu.com/teen-borderline-personality-disorder-treatment/. From talking to them the level of psychiatric attention, and creating individualized treatment plans was really impressive. Downside, they are private pay upfront and 'assist' you with reclaiming insurance later. They said the reason they don't have in network insurance is because the treatment plans are too individualized and insurance wants cookie cutter.
If you looks at google reviews on Paradigm Malibu, it looks like leader of the pack. If you are considering an upfront pay facility like McLean or Menninger, I would definitely check them out as an alternative.
I hope this gives you some food for though. Don't make the mistake I did in not getting the door to door transfer and insurance sees this as a psychiatrist declaring residential supervision is no longer necessary!
Best wishes to you and you daughter.