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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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« on: February 19, 2010, 05:20:42 PM »
If you haven't = this will give you some light relief.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=S2-9QSf7ruM&feature=related
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« Reply #1 on: February 19, 2010, 05:29:17 PM »
Yes, but... .I gave up after three minutes.

I realize it's a satire, but I kept thinking that this dude is just asking for it!  Why does he continue to engage her, and not just walk away?

Perhaps it's an allegory for the disengagement process... .sigh.
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« Reply #2 on: February 19, 2010, 07:45:01 PM »
Splitting, Abuse, Projection, Blame, TRIANGULATION, Karma and Suicide Threats, yep.
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« Reply #3 on: February 19, 2010, 08:02:58 PM »
I've seen this one a few times and always laugh when she says "karma." My ex friend used to gripe about people ... .nothing unusual about that ... .but whenever I had a gripe of my own she would always raise a finger, shush me and say ":)ON'T ... .that's bad karma." It was another handy way to control my every move.
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« Reply #4 on: February 19, 2010, 08:07:15 PM »
"You make me feel like nothing... .you think you are so superior... .stop being my therapist!"

Wow, I have heard these 1000000000000000000000 times from her. Usually when I was just defending myself.
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« Reply #5 on: February 19, 2010, 08:27:02 PM »
Can't count how many times my uBPD exbf accused me of the same things.  The only difference is that he never had a therapist.
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« Reply #6 on: February 19, 2010, 08:29:23 PM »
Wow, she actually paused and let him say something!
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« Reply #7 on: February 20, 2010, 09:59:39 PM »
creepy... has said similar... especially the part about death being inviting ?
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« Reply #8 on: February 22, 2010, 08:02:31 AM »
wow. so similar. espically the karma part... .and the whole i hate you thing.
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« Reply #9 on: February 22, 2010, 08:15:49 AM »
Yup. That was like a tick list!
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« Reply #10 on: February 22, 2010, 08:21:39 AM »
It is eerie how I can see so many similarities in my situation.   The validation is a nice feeling.

Maybe dialogue went on too long because if he tried to end the conversation by explaining he won't participate in discussion anymore and attempted to  go to another room in the house, she would follow him shouting "THIS IS MY HOUSE TOO YOU CAN'T KEEP ME OUT OF ANY ROOMS! I HAVE A RIGHT TO SAY WHAT I WANT YOU ARE TRYING TO CONTROL ME!"  Been there.
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