So I know texting is terrible for many, but for me it seems to be a good way to communicate. It seems that he is less hurtful in his texts than when we are actually talking. I have been trying to use it some, and the only downside seems to be he gets mad if I don't reply fast enough.
So, how did I do. Validation and not being codependant.
He is in training for a new job and finding.it very difficult.
Him: I am starting to get weird vibes in here today.
Me: weird vibes how?
Him: like I'm a burden
Me: burden to who?
Him: class
Me: That must feel terrible. Did someone say something, or is it just something you're feeling?
Him: no their body language
Me: try not to let others get you down
Him: its everybody, (name)
Me: You have 1 job to do there, and I know it is extra hard when you're not feeling accepted. Try to focus on what you gotta do.
Him: I don't feel equal
Me: That must feel pretty cra... ppy
Him: Yes, but who cares
me: I do
Him:
