Can we talk about the abuse for a second?

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I'm intentionally avoiding this topic.

Long story short, we need to be apart because if we're not, one of us is probably going to kill the other one eventually.

I'm a pretty chill guy and I'd never been in an abusive relationship before I met her. Couldn't even imagine it. She started really getting violent with me about 4 months in. I just let it slide for awhile, but I could only take so much without defending myself.

There wasn't any violence at all for the past 2+ years. I think she got the point that I wasn't going to take it. I could kind of tell she was starting back toward that before we split up though. She was getting crazy looks in her eyes again. I just can't go back down that path. That's not me.

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I'm intentionally avoiding this topic.

Long story short, we need to be apart because if we're not, one of us is probably going to kill the other one eventually.

I'm a pretty chill guy and I'd never been in an abusive relationship before I met her. Couldn't even imagine it. She started really getting violent with me about 4 months in. I just let it slide for awhile, but I could only take so much without defending myself.

There wasn't any violence at all for the past 2+ years. I think she got the point that I wasn't going to take it. I could kind of tell she was starting back toward that before we split up though. She was getting crazy looks in her eyes again. I just can't go back down that path. That's not me.