JEALOUSY IN BPD PARTNERS (WIFES)

[Fanie]

Hi everybody

How do you experience jealousy in your relationship

with BPDw

My wife seems to nonchalant

Might be as I have never cheated het in our 10 years together

(whereas I cant say the same of her)

I would like to know the experiences of other members

[going places]

I was never jealous.

I was secure, and drank the koolaid and believed he felt the same.

Found out 3 years ago, he was having an affair.

I was never 'jealous' of the other woman.

I was never 'jealous' of his addiction.

I felt sorry for the other woman, and I loathed his addiction (didn't know about that until 3 years ago)

I am sure he has been seeing other woman, and I don't care.

They are getting, no prize.

HE was NEVER jealous of me or if other men talked to me or looked at me or hugged me... .

He didn't care.

As long as the house was clean, everything was taken care of and his needs were met, he didn't care about me or anything I was doing.

I could have had 10 affairs and as long as I was doing the above, he wouldn't care.

It's all about him, his needs, his wants, his desires.

I am not a jealous person, nor would I tolerate a jealous person.