Healing - How it feels?

[Trog]

Only during the past 2/3 weeks have I started to be able to even think about other women. For the entire time I was with my ex wife I wasn't even able to think of another woman/fantasize or dream of, that was so peculiar about our relationship she was the only woman who made me feel that way and I felt it for a long long time. But in the last few weeks I've started to have sleeping dreams and waking fantasies abou other women, I can be fulfilled   thinking of them and am starting to see couples and get short lived pangs of wanting a romantic partner.

This has come hand in hand with doing the codependency work, is this what healing feels like?

[Crayfog]

Yes, that sounds like hopeful healing. You might do some dream analysis... .Some believe that everyone in our dreams represents an aspect of ourselves. But the best person to analyze a dream is the dreamer themselves. I had similar dreams and realized that I had everything in me to be whole.

If you feel like you're healing, you're healing. It's a slow process but you're doint the work.