Replacement figured out how to make it work with ex pwBPD?

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It almost sounds like it was aimed at you, in case you were checking fb!

It's also the unrealistic fantastical statement an imbalanced pwBPD would make. Also, for her relationships to change or improve, she would have to take responsibility for her own moods and actions to some degree.
Notice how she puts it on the partner to be responsible for the outcome of her moods... ? ''He makes me laugh... .''  This is fantasy, idealising AND making someone else accountable for your feelings. That's not sustainable.

That being said, I truly sympathise as I'd feel hit by seeing that too. But why should we sit around feeling like WE didn't do enough for THEM... ?

But put the ball back in your court. What was SHE doing for YOU to make you happy in the r/s? Was she scrabbling around trying to please you? Was she trying to make you laugh, helping to keep the peace... ? Probably not...

She's saying- this person knows how to compensate for my bad behaviour.
But for how long... ? If at all... .

[Zinnia21]

It almost sounds like it was aimed at you, in case you were checking fb!

It's also the unrealistic fantastical statement an imbalanced pwBPD would make. Also, for her relationships to change or improve, she would have to take responsibility for her own moods and actions to some degree.
Notice how she puts it on the partner to be responsible for the outcome of her moods... ? ''He makes me laugh... .''  This is fantasy, idealising AND making someone else accountable for your feelings. That's not sustainable.

That being said, I truly sympathise as I'd feel hit by seeing that too. But why should we sit around feeling like WE didn't do enough for THEM... ?

But put the ball back in your court. What was SHE doing for YOU to make you happy in the r/s? Was she scrabbling around trying to please you? Was she trying to make you laugh, helping to keep the peace... ? Probably not...

She's saying- this person knows how to compensate for my bad behaviour.
But for how long... ? If at all... .

[fromheeltoheal]

My exgf was posting lovey dovey things on fb up to a couple of weeks before she dumped him. Never use fb as reality. For a pwBPD they can use it to fool the world alls good. Pull behaviour in public and push in privacy. It can be used as a weapon to hurt people. Very rarely is it whats really happening.

Enlighten me, that was PERFECTLY worded. You would never get to know my ex on Facebook. Everything is perfect on Facebook! Nothing ever goes wrong. I've read her Facebook all the way back to the beginning. FAKE.

And isn't that true for everyone of Facebook, not just folks with personality disorders, everyone putting their best foot forward and showing a rosy version of their lives to the world?