How do I find assisted living programs for a child with BPD ?

[Ivory123]

I have a child who is 19 years old.  She tried to commit suicide several times.  She states that she wants to harm me. She damages my personal property.  I had to recently let her go to live with a family member.  She is so negative.  Will she ever become positive.  Will she ever be able to see the good in herself.  I am wondering where do you go to for help to find a place for them to live. I guess I am feeling bad because she doesn't want to grow up.  She is a child trapped in an young adult body.

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[Harri]

Hello Ivory and welcome to BPD Family.  You found a great place to get the information you seek and some support.  This site has a board dedicated to parents of children (including adult children) with BPD.  Here is the link to the board:

https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=4.0

You are welcome to post here too or any other board for that matter, but I think you may benefit more by posting/reading on the parents board.  

While I am not a parent of a person with BPD, I might be able to help with more general questions or be able to direct you to specific threads.  Let me know if you need some help.

Take care.