Death doesn’t become her

[Arella]

  Thank you kindly for reading:
First time reaching out this way….desperately need advice from disowned parents of an adult bpd daughter.
Short version:
I’ve been *life severed* by my bpd daughter 5 yrs now. She’s late 20’s. Her father and I divorced when she was an infant. Yesterday he died suddenly. I reached out with benign condolences to her and received a vicious response.  
I later learned her paternal grandmother had also died this past April. Doesn’t leave many family members for her to lean on. No idea if she has support. At a loss as to how .. or if.. I can help her. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated!

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Arella]

Thank you kindly for reading:
First time reaching out this way….desperately need advice from disowned parents of an adult bpd daughter.
Short version:
I’ve been *life severed* by my bpd daughter 5 yrs now. She’s late 20’s. Her father and I divorced when she was an infant. Yesterday he died suddenly. I reached out with benign condolences to her and received a vicious response.  
I later learned her paternal grandmother had also died this past April. Doesn’t leave many family members for her to lean on. No idea if she has support. At a loss as to how .. or if.. I can help her. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated!