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Author Topic: Misplaced anger? Mad at those that did nada years ago  (Read 420 times)
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« on: August 25, 2017, 03:11:05 PM »

I know I have to own that for some reason my boundaries were lowered and at a vulnerable point in my life my x was able to tell me all he did
I own that part I worked on boundary issues with counciling

But this week... .this week what I posted here about... .people he works with could have prevented all of this... .they could have maybe warned me about him... .I would have listened

They could have had him fired and disciplined the first day of the job... .

My anger today is no one did anything and they still don't... .what donthey fear?  They fear my x suing them... .
but here is the thing ... .my x is doing things that are putting the public at risk... .so far I have not seen him talking to anyone and I hope that I never do because the day I see him talking, is the day I warn that person. 

I don't wish to get my x fired... .my hate towards him is gone... .
all along I felt this burden to get him help and here they all knew... .and did nothing... .

I realize they could all feel like I do and maybe some did try and help... .maybe we are all in this together ... .this horrid twisted game he plays... .
More will be discovered I just know it... .   

So thenodd thing in all this is... .my x was so fearful I wanted him to loose his job... .what info did I have that they all don't?  Nothing
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