Ex BPD/npd ever left you for someone who also has children

[Gunit1]

Not only did mine leave for fairly random person she now with a guy who has 2 young kids. She's 35 never had any and from my point view way to selfish to even put her partner first let alone handle kids that aren't hers.

Anyone else had this and has it lasted? Would it last. I know for healthy people taking on someone else's kids can be hard thing to sustain.

[Darkblaez]

Mine discarded me while we were still married for another guy she was having an affair with. He was a son about 10yrs of age. He is not divorced yet but separated. I think she moved in with him. All of this was rather quick. Caught her this February and confronted her, she bolted to her parents, then immediately shifted her full focus to him. Divorced her on March 8th and most recently they both created Facebook pages to show how much of a couple they are. It appears she is staying with him or moved in. As for will it work our or did it, the jury is still out on this one. I suspect with these circumstances that this will fail. However, knowing her, she will do her best to keep him hooked until she starts to cycle through each phase.

-Darkblaez

[Gunit1]

Have you seen then guy? Swear mine has no standards, me, her ex and current new guy are all completely different however this guy looks like he could almost be her dad. Couple kids and they also started cheating, he to was coming out of failing marriage and once got with her was Def over and now they together. Living together pretty much within 3 months and she alresdy met his kids which is really quick! But sounds about standard for disordered ppl.

Seeing him I know she would like fact he would jump when she says too.

I can't see it lasting. She's cheated on most guys. If doesn't cheat she comes close to it and is massive pathological liar.