Where is the pen?

[Chosen]

I was looking for a pen to sign things, and couldn't find it where there usually is one.  I muttered under my breath "where is the pen?", then uBPDh said "what did you say?", but I have already found the pen, so I said, "oh nothing, no worries."  This ticked him off.  He barked at me, "I asked, what did you say!" and I told him so. 

But the switch was flipped already.  He says he hates me because I treat him like a dog, like a slave, then he told me to p*ss off and as I was walking away he threw his slippers at me. 

Yeah, fun times.

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[Red5]

But the switch was flipped already.  He says he hates me because I treat him like a dog, like a slave, then he told me to p*ss off and as I was walking away he threw his slippers at me. 

... projection.

Doesn’t matter the ‘reason’ for the release... only the release matters.

How many times have we heard, “don’t take it personally”... it’s nothing to do with you, it’s what’s all bottled up inside them, just waiting for the trigger to “release”.

Red5