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Author Topic: BPD broke up with me but doesn't stop contacting  (Read 732 times)
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« on: January 05, 2020, 12:27:59 AM »

My girlfriend (BPD) broke up with me. I have said I don't want to be friends with her and she says she can't be someone's partner. She is now trying to pull me back in to being friends saying I'm the most important thing to her etc. I need to respect my boundaries and know that right now it will just go around in circles again. I am not engaging in any conversations just reponding as required to close a dialogue. Any advice please.
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« Reply #1 on: January 06, 2020, 08:14:45 AM »

If she wanted to have a romantic relationship with her again, would you want that? Or are you wanting to cut the cord completely? Because if you want to stay open to a possible romantic relationship, you may need to be more careful in how you handle it.

If she's going to keep reaching out, there's not much you can do other than what you've been doing. Except to go completely no-contact or to block her email/phone/social media -- perhaps after a final message. But, as I said, that may kill any chance of romantic future (if you're even interested in that at all).
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