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Skills we were never taught
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A 3 Minute Lesson
on Ending Conflict
Communication Skills-
Don't Be Invalidating
Listen with Empathy -
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Setting Boundaries
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Diesel bomber
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
Relationship status: Unhappily married
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« on: December 05, 2020, 06:33:56 PM »

I'm hoping to learn how to cope with things. I'm leaning on divorcing my bpd wife. Thanksgiving was the final nail in the coffin. I was blindsided with daily rage attacks. My son from a previous marriage who witnessed all of this and I could tell it bothers him that daily, I'm raged at for no reason.
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« Reply #1 on: December 05, 2020, 09:00:05 PM »

Though you’re planning on divorce, I’m going to move your post to the Bettering Board. That may seem strange, but that is the board where strategies are discussed for making things less volatile, something that will be important should you initiate divorce proceedings.
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