Bpd Partner is wanting to be throw out and leaves constantly.

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

Bpd girlfriend wants out so bad that she will call the police ,knowing she is going to jail, But trying to take me down too. She has be arrested twice for DV. But called thinking some way or how she could make it ALL my fault. And I would get arrested. Both times only she was arrested thoughts ?

[RollercoasterR]

Bpd girlfriend wants out so bad that she will call the police ,knowing she is going to jail, But trying to take me down too. She has be arrested twice for DV. But called thinking some way or how she could make it ALL my fault. And I would get arrested. Both times only she was arrested thoughts ?

[arjay]

Yes a dangerous situation.  I experienced many "threats" of the Police.  As my counselor told me "if the Police show-up because your wife fabricates a story, realize it is "you" going to jail.

I went through 5 years of "hell", including a separation; us living apart; her returning to my home; more upheaval; rise and repeat.  I can't tell you what to do regarding your relationship other than suggesting in your case, you "will" be involved with the law at some point, as long as this partner is in your life.  It's just not worth it.

[Mutt]

Hey RollercoasterR  



I’d like to join arjay and welcome you to the family. That’s a scary situation! You’re username is an apt choice. You decided to join a support group because there’s something or someone that guided you. It could be your intuition or perhaps a friend or counselor.

It helps to talk to others that can relate with your situation and offer you support. She could craft a better story next time knowing that the last two stories were not successful.

It’s hard to control a situation that as your username implies is out of control - you can control how you react or respond to it.

How can we help you?