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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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Author Topic: Would you warn others about your ex bf/gf w BPD?  (Read 6979 times)
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« Reply #60 on: January 27, 2013, 03:14:51 PM »

BPD is so complex. when I warned the new bf it was in the written to appear in the spirit of bros before __s.  Later I got nasty texts from the ex and even the bf and I responded in not as nice a way saying something like don't get attached hit it and quit it ect. then more nasty texts came in from the newbf and I said your texts are proof you are being controlled like an xbox controller... .  pull the ripcord. etc.

Anyways I don't think I could have done 'better' than that ... .  and it did lead to a quick demise of the r/s.

But as time has gone on I realize there was really nothing good that came out of my actions (so what the ex came back to me. was that good?).  Plus it excalated my emotions and kept me in an obsessive tailspin for too long.
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« Reply #61 on: January 27, 2013, 09:06:25 PM »

yeah well, I did just that. I was hurt and agry and am pretty sure he is rekindling with his ex again. I did not have her phone number so I messaged her on facebook. I don't think she goes on there to often, but when she does oh boy. I wish I could erase those messages. He is going to flip
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« Reply #62 on: January 27, 2013, 11:46:38 PM »

yeah well, I did just that. I was hurt and agry and am pretty sure he is rekindling with his ex again. I did not have her phone number so I messaged her on facebook. I don't think she goes on there to often, but when she does oh boy. I wish I could erase those messages. He is going to flip

Do you really care that you put it on there? Like really really care?

I have my doubts. Smiling (click to insert in post) And it's interesting to see that the first few posts in this topic were about NOT warn others while the majority of the last all DID warn the others. Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #63 on: January 28, 2013, 12:36:02 AM »

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